A Deeper Look at Half Full v Half Empty

We  go to great lengths to remain positive in most every situation, right?  That doesn’t necessarily mean we pull it off, but by nature we intentionally try a positive approach on the first pass.  The classic challenge of whether or not the glass is half full or half empty is automatically a “half full” answer for us in leadership.  At least it should be. 

Terry Starbucker’s recent post on appreciation eloquently speaks to the “half full” phenomenon, and how powerful appreciation can be when integrated into our leadership.  But is there something beyond the half full/half empty question that we’ve missed?
WE’RE MISSING THE “REAL” QUESTION

Taking a closer look at this question goes beyond whether or not there is any water in there, and speaks to whether or not we are happy with our “glass” at all.  Having a positive attitude is a great perspective to take as we travel through life; but if we truly are not happy, it will be extremely difficult to maintain a positive approach.  That can be downright lethal for us in leadership.

Does it really matter if there is any water in the glass anyway?
WHAT TO DO WITH THE “REAL” QUESTION?

So now what?  Clearly the question is about life, not a silly metaphor for plastering a smile on our face during times of crisis.  In his June blog post, Dr. John Mandrola reflected on the power of a positive attitude and what it can mean not only in his work as a cardiologist, but for the patients he serves as well.  The task at hand is to first critically examine our own lives.  What’s working, what’s not, and most importantly what choices are we going to make to effect change?  This isn’t easy for any of us, particularly me. 

HOW ABOUT YOU

How have you reconciled the half full/half empty question?  Are you satisfied with where you are on the life journey; or, is it time to reevaluate and develop a new plan for the coming year? 

I’d love to hear from you.

No Excuses.

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